Friday, October 28, 2011

If You Have the Disembodied Heads All Ready, Why Not?

For all of you, on Halloween, my least favorite holiday:


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And just in case you were wondering, Halloweenish tasks still to complete at the Hallstrom house: carve Jack o Lanterns; find Wyatt a pirate pistol; buy more Halloween candy; figure out a way to make the prison uniform I got for Elise at Goodwill for $1.99, which is two sizes too small, look like this, but Mormonized with a t-shirt instead of a tank top:


We're also planning to somehow make tube socks look like those boots. Somehow. Oh, and Ethan still has no costume. He wants a gorilla suit but gorilla suits are $80 and if he can't be a gorilla? There's nothing else for a 15 year old boy to be, apparently.

I think I will find him a crazy hat. Ah, Halloween!

Monday, October 24, 2011

Mankato Marathon

This weekend, Forrest ran his 3rd marathon in Mankato. Since we're extended-familyless here in MN, it's tough for us to leave overnight, so instead Forrest and I woke up at 4:30 a.m. in order to get to Mankato by 7:00. We met up with our friends the Amezcuas; Hector was running his very first marathon, which is all the more impressive since he only started running a year ago and has lost 70 pounds in the last twelve months.  Forrest was glad to have a buddy to run with, and I was glad to have a buddy (his lovely wife Allison) to drive around town with to cheer the guys on.

Game Face.

On your mark, get set . . .

Forrest and Hector, smiling wide at mile 9.
My friend Allison, victim of a senseless act of enthusiastic cowbelling violence. (Michelle was really sorry.)

In all our many races, I have never made Forrest a poster. Thank goodness there are people like the Amezcuas in the word! (That's their cute daughter Sara holding the sign.)

Grinding it out with the pacing group at mile 20.
Coming in for the finish. Forrest ran with the 4:00 pacing group the whole time in the hopes of getting a time with a 3 in front of it (like, say, 3:59). According to my clock he made it, but when we checked the official chip time? 4:00:24. Forrest took it, yes, in stride.
Forrest and Hector exchanging a heartfelt bro-hug at the end of the race. Both guys did a great job.


All this talk of running marathons makes me tired. Doesn't it make you tired? In that spirit, a shot of Wyatt, a boy who knows the value of a nice, long rest:


Anyway: great job hon! Now all he has to do is finish building our deck and his life will settle down a little. Right? Fingers crossed? At least until cross country ski season starts.

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Fall

Wyatt has been keeping an eagle eye out for piles of leaves to jump in.

Fall has arrived here in Minnesota. A beautiful fall, in fact: sunny, clear, lots of beautiful color. Today it's finally cool enough to get that sharpness in the air I love. Jonas and Wyatt are in the back yard with friends and I can hear the sound of the swing set creaking and basketballs bouncing. It's getting dark by 7 p.m. All these things make me feel cozy and content. It would be so hard to live somewhere that doesn't have a proper fall.

Now that we're back in MN, another harbinger of fall is the bow hunt. Forrest looks forward every year to hauling out his deer stand and climbing up a tree. Because we've been so busy he had to put off his first foray for a couple of weeks after the opener. He wasn't sure if he'd even see any deer since the rut hadn't quite started yet, but he figured he'd at least get a lay of the land. But then -- surprise surprise! -- I get a text. "Got a big buck. Heart beating out of my chest!" I was happy for him, but I was also a little apprehensive. We know from past experience that it's one thing to shoot a deer with a bow and arrow. It's another thing entirely to track it and find it. But Forrest was pretty sure he'd gotten off a good shot and that the deer wouldn't go far.

He asked me if I could drive up to the nature preserve and bring some supplies he didn't have with him, which I was happy to do, but by the time I got there it had become clear that he couldn't find any of his deer hunting buddies to help him track the deer and drag it out of the woods. Now, it's taken me years (YEARS) to be okay with even the idea of hunting. When Forrest took it up after we'd moved to Minnesota I hoped for a while that it would be a phase (deer are so pretty, first of all, and while I know that I eat meat that come from animals that were once alive and are now dead, I wasn't sure I wanted my husband to participate in the killing part). But over the years I've come to understand the reasons why Forrest finds bow hunting so meaningful. And there really is a need here in MN to keep the population under control. ANYWAY -- I got to the nature preserve and Forrest needed me to help him, and, truly surprisingly, I knew I could do it.

The tracking part was actually kind of exciting. Following the blood trail in the woods in the dark, shining our headlamps in the trees trying to find little droplets of red on a leaf. Yeah, yeah, I know: I should have been horrified that I was tracking the blood of an animal my husband had shot, but I wasn't. It actually made me feel better when we found blood because it indicated that the deer died quickly, without a lot of suffering.  At one point we lost the trail for a little while, and it was exciting to spot the one telltale fleck that led us back in the right direction.

Then, finally, we came upon a little clearing in a grove of trees and Forrest found him. And oh, what a deer! So beautiful. He's the second biggest buck to ever be taken out of his work's nature preserve, and he looked pristine. So many deer look kind of flea bitten up close (especially in Utah, Forrest tells me, which isn't a slight against Utah but against mule deer), but this guy was perfect. I'm sure there will be a few disappointed female deer in the preserve this fall -- I bet he was the deer-style Brad Pitt of Willow Lake.

So, yeah, I was a little sad for the deer. Poor beautiful deer. But I was really happy for Forrest, too -- he was thrilled. Getting a deer this nice in the bow hunt is a rare occurrence. Here he is, right after we found him:



And yes, I helped him drag it through the woods. And held the deer's leg (and looked away) while Forrest gutted it. And yes, I went above and beyond, scoring a number of wife-points I will enjoy cashing in at some point here soon.

Here's Forrest and the boys with the deer back home:



If there's anything more to add to the deer hunting story, Forrest will have to do so in the comments. I'm sure I left out some important details. But, with the help of his friend, he went on to skin the deer, then butcher it, and by Sunday had made us a nice big pot of venison chili. Yes, he does more than bring home the bacon: he can stalk, shoot, track, gut, skin and butcher the venison, and then fry it up in a pan.

Interestingly, although Forrest spent that Friday feeling lucky and triumphant, when we got home I found a frozen MacBook waiting for me. Didn't think it was a big deal -- my MacBook is 5 years old and likes to freeze up -- but this time? It wouldn't come unfrozen. That very day I had finished what I'd hoped to be the final draft of a short story I've been working on -- I figured all that was left was language-level tweaking and I was pretty happy with it. Unfortunately, though, I hadn't saved a version on my external hard drive or emailed myself a copy for the past three weeks while I'd been working on that final version. Long story about a short story short? My hard drive was fried, and my final version of the story is gone. I still haven't been able to muster up the energy to start over again, but I will. I will. It's only three weeks, right? RIGHT? Sigh. I did get a new laptop out of the whole ordeal, though. Awesome new MacBook Pro. Thank you Best Buy 18 Months No Interest!

So that's been a small part of our fall so far. There's also been seminary and play practicing and deck building (almost done! photos soon) and traveling to Utah. Speaking of Utah, here's a couple of Utah pics to round this post out:

My mom and I posing for a twinner picture in our white shirts and jeans. It seemed necessary, what with my new hair cut. I am becoming my mother! Luckily, with my mom, I don't really mind. :-)

And this is just cute.

And now I must return to the laundry that's been piling up every since we got back from our trip. Laundry: it knows no season.



Thursday, October 13, 2011

Goodbye Grandpa Hallstrom

A classic Hallstrom family photo

Steve with Ethan as a baby


Last week, Forrest's father, Steve, passed away at the age of 68. He'd struggled for many years with a number of ailments, most recently a Parkinson's-like disorder called PSP. When we visited in August we knew that Steve's health was failing rapidly, but it was still a shock to hear that he was deteriorating so quickly. While we were all sad to lose him, his quality of life had become so compromised that we knew it was a relief for him to be free from all his physical restrictions and enjoy some peace and rest.

We flew out for the funeral and were so glad for the opportunity to spend time with family and celebrate Steve's life. The funeral was lovely: Barbara and Chelle and Mindy and the rest did a great job putting things together, the grandkids performed a beautiful song, and Forrest delivered an excellent eulogy for his Dad. We know that Steve was with us. We love you, Grandpa Hallstrom, and we'll miss you.












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